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You do not need to do a search for anything before you post, except in your own mind. We all need to do that. Make sure your comment is helpful and positive. If you disagree with something do so respectfully and kindly. It is easy for an edgy, casual voice to 'sound' harsh and strident.
There a number of simple things to do. Don't post in all caps. Don't say something to someone you would not want said to yourself. No matter how much you think they need to hear it. The golden rules goes an amazingly long way in forums such as these. If you are feeling anoyed or irritated then it's a good idea to pause when you get ready to post and either leave it, unposted, and walk away from it for a bit, so you can see if later on you really feel you 'need' to say that thing. Or delete it.
Sometimes when I am annoyed by something and I respond, I get done typing and then delete it. Just writing it all out makes me feel better ; -)
Wait and see what other say. Maybe you have miss read something and others will better 'get' what the OP was meaning or searching for.
If it doesn't contribute anything positive then don't bother. It's just bees and honey, nothing that merits high emotions.
Finally, try a spoonfull of honey. That should sweeten the sharpest tongue!